Intelligence- Definitely one of the most important things I look for. I’m passionate when it comes to this. If a woman cant stimulate my mind and make me think, if she cant hold an intellectual conversation with me… things are going to get dull real quick. I like a girl who is intellectually independent, I don’t want to have to explain every simple thing to her, or make decisions for her because shes not smart enough to figure out what she wants. I look for a girl who can teach me things, someone I can learn from. Smart = Sexy.
Trust- This is prob the one that kills most relationships, and is why I think it’s the most important to have. Trust goes both ways… I need a girl not only that I can trust, but who trusts me the same. And when I say trust, I’m not only taking about being faithful, I’m also taking about trusting my word.
Honesty - Definitely goes with trust but still needs its own section. Basically how I feel is, Dont ever lie to me… ever! Once you lie to me, and I find out, you loose all credibility. Never again will I have full confidence you are 100% truthful with me. Which in-turns results in lost of trust.
Respect - I hung out with a girl the other day who really opened my eyes when it came to this. Every time she answered one of her parent’s question, she ended with a “yes sir” or “no ma’am” That right there says a lot. I’m not saying I need a girl who does that, but what Im saying is a girl who shows that much respect to her parents must give the same level of respect to a significant other. I feel a girl like that will also DEMAND that level of respect back, which is a plus cuz if you don’t respect yourself, how can I expect you to respect me…
Class- I don’t want a girl that’s easy. If you’re easy with me then you were prob easy with all the other dudes you only dated once. That shit aint cute ma. And since I’m not the type of dude just to date you to get in your pants, I’m not down with loose women. Nuff said.
Sense of Humor - pretty self-explanatory. Make me laugh, we good. Laugh at me, we good too haha ;)
Looks - Not the most important but nonetheless still important. Nobody wants to feel turned off just by looking at someone, at least I don’t. I have to have some level of physical attraction, especially when getting intimate or showing affection. If I’m scared when looking at you in the morning when I wake up, it’s not going to work haha
Hygiene - Thought about adding this the “Looks” section but I think its different. Looks is obvious, its how attractive i find you. Hygiene is more about the way to take care of yourself. A girl’s nails, hair, make-up, scent, breath… all that, I feel a girl who doesn’t take care of some as small as her hygiene, wont be too good at taking care of me.
The shit below this line doesn’t really matter but deff is a plus
Good eye contact
Same taste in music
Freak in da bed
Does all my laundry ;) (jk)